I am not a Doctor, not even a therapist. But one thing I know is Panic and Anxiety and if 1 person takes a part of this with them I am fine with that. Anxiety is broken into many parts and phases. The first part being irrational, caotic thinking. We need to be mind stimulated because we are always over-analyzing everything, even rediculous thoughts. We do this because we are negative people, we taught ourselves this behavior. It needs to be unlearned! These crazy thoughts are just that, stupid, meaningless thoughts because we are wonderful people! I know the dread, the pain, the pleading for the uncomfortable agony to stop. You are the captain of this ship. Live life on life's terms. But, most importantly you must function. You must maintain a job, even if it is P/T in the corner pet shop. You can grow from there. You must stimulate your mind because you are in need of a challenge. Give yourself a challenge! But make it a positive one. Clean, Sew, build, Play with your Kids on the front lawn instead of dreaming up ways to scare the **** out of yourself. Call a friend who makes you laugh, but don't sit there and boil over. When you become dysfunctional you become depressed with these terrible feelings and terrible thoughts.
For the woman feeling suicidal, I felt your pain! I know this demon, but think of this 1 thing. Picture someone telling your child where Mommy is! That sweetheart would suffer a pain so much greater than yours. You can get help, children can never replace there mother. God is Great but that child IS your HIGHER Power. All of my heart 2 you America!!! ***@****
Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. It does not solve a thing!! Please call someone or get yourself into counseling at least for your baby's sake. I lost my mother when I was 13 through natural causes and to this day, 40 years later, I'm still suffering because of it. Can you imagine losing your mother because she took her own life?? Please don't put your loved ones through that. I will pray for you.
Another thought, echoing what someone else said:
Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. It is "a bad choice on a bad day."
Do whatever you need to do to get through it and live.
I will pray. Good luck.
Hi there. My heart goes out to you. I lost a long comment I just wrote. To sum up: I have struggled w/ depression my whole life so I know of what you speak. [I am now 45, with 3 great children -- 16, 13, 11 -- and I'm still married to my husband (19 years). With so many good things in my life, it's still been tough; had a very rough couple of years and checked myself into a psych hosp several months ago to keep myself from committing suicide.]
I've learned so much.
My advice: see a doctor for medication (it does help); talk to a counselor/psychologist; reach out to friends, family; read/learn everything you can (find out about "cognitive therapy") about depression.
Know this: The disease drags you down; it will twist your mind and tell you that you'd be better off dead and that your family will be better off w/out you. That's the disease talking. You don't have to listen. Life can be good again; you can recover from major depression.
Remember: ONE DAY AT A TIME.
Love & best wishes.
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IF U HAVE MSN PLEASE ADD ME, CHYLA_2***@****.
I HAVE BEEN THOUGH THIS MYSELF AND HAVE 1 PERSON CONMIT SUICIDE AND LEFT BEHIND 4 YOUNG CHILDREN(13,11,15AND18)1 IS MY BF, AND SHE LEFT BEHIND HER 2 GRANDKIDS.
JUST PLEASE ADD ME THERE IS MORE THAT I WOULD LIKE TO SHARE BUT DON'T FEEL COMFORTABLE WITH ALL THESE OTHER PEOPLE YET.