So there is no concept of going to the doctor for depression in my family, my dad thinks its a phase that everyone goes through...its not a disease. But as far as I can remember, I've been silent and shy all my life. I was sexually abused many times during my life, once by a family member(cant write who) then by a religious teacher (ugly, filthy man) then by a servant(dirty, DIRTY man) then again by a family member(someone else not the same one). So my life went by like that resulting in me growing up to be an introverted woman. I cannot trust anyone, especially any guy, thats why I cant even talk to them properly. I think of them as disgusting. I've thought a lot about committing suicide but never ever tried because i'm scared of dying and going to hell for all my sins. I'm a muslim woman, I've harmed myself by cutting, it feels so good, the pain. Sometimes when im going through my really depressive phase, i tend to isolate myself from everyone. My mom wants me to talk to her but i can't. Not a good relationship with her. I need my space and once when this teacher tried to invade that space, I felt helpless. I don't know whats going on, recently I've developed major anxiety disorder, even that is not diagnosed by a doctor, but by myself, because i was having major panic attacks and I didn't know what they were so I searched online for an answer and came here, discovered that I'm not really dying, its just anxiety and stress and panic and I need to calm myself down. Such a sad life I've had so far, i dunno whats in store for me next. I dont want to be married either because of trust issues with men, but in my religion, being marriage free is not looked upon as being a good thing, if my dad says i have to get married, then I have to get married. no arguments. Sigh. So my question is do I suffer from depression or not, and what do I take, I've taken one anti depressant in my life but that was for the treatment of anxiety.