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My Mother
Well, I know i have to disown her, but i have before and just took her back. It's horrible, I don't even feel like typing, If i could get any advice on what to do, see she is borderline with antisocial disorder, and she's threatened me suicide all my life if i don't' give in to her, and my grandmother attempted suicide and i found her and saved her life and then she died from a motor cycle accident a year later. I don't want to talk about it yet, I went to my mom's house to tell her that i got new furniture and want her to come see it, see my life is good now and I'm on my medication for skitzophrintia and I'm getting married to a wonderful man and everything, Well, i lost my kids to adoption and I was trying to get some of there stuff back to them that my mother's 4TH soon to be ex Husband has, so i went to see him the other day and i then stopped by my mom's house and she got all fussy with me today she said to me
" Is there anyone who has beat you up, broke your teeth out or thrown you out of a house in the winter or anything like that, cause i want to ask them to be my friend on face book? I asked why and she said because I'm friends with my soon to be ex- father, so what ever, and then i had already invited her over to the house, to see the furniture, i know that she's only going to start an arrogant way with me, like she's better than me or i don't' know, i do know, she doesn't have much real love for me, she likes to hurt me, and she's gonna probably kill her self one day.
I realize, she wants to help me with my wedding and i know that that will be the point that i cut her out of my life because I'm going to have to choose my future husband over her and he knows I shouldn't' have anything to do with her. And i know she's ready to ruin my wedding to get back at me for interfering in all her relationships with men and trying to understand who's my dad this year to that year , I Don't know what to think, My grandmother's gone and one day my mother will be too, she's been warning me about it for years, and i just think I'm ready to throw the flowers in her casket already It's sick and I'm not suicidal i wont be NO-Way do i want that in my life. I got a reason and alot of them to live, so i have to go to suicidal classes to but I'm not but still...
Any help would be great Thank-you
" Is there anyone who has beat you up, broke your teeth out or thrown you out of a house in the winter or anything like that, cause i want to ask them to be my friend on face book? I asked why and she said because I'm friends with my soon to be ex- father, so what ever, and then i had already invited her over to the house, to see the furniture, i know that she's only going to start an arrogant way with me, like she's better than me or i don't' know, i do know, she doesn't have much real love for me, she likes to hurt me, and she's gonna probably kill her self one day.
I realize, she wants to help me with my wedding and i know that that will be the point that i cut her out of my life because I'm going to have to choose my future husband over her and he knows I shouldn't' have anything to do with her. And i know she's ready to ruin my wedding to get back at me for interfering in all her relationships with men and trying to understand who's my dad this year to that year , I Don't know what to think, My grandmother's gone and one day my mother will be too, she's been warning me about it for years, and i just think I'm ready to throw the flowers in her casket already It's sick and I'm not suicidal i wont be NO-Way do i want that in my life. I got a reason and alot of them to live, so i have to go to suicidal classes to but I'm not but still...
Any help would be great Thank-you
Best Answer
Hello, If your mother is driving you crazy, tell her that although she is your mother and you respect her in that position..you will not accept her back inn your life until she knows how to treat you..tell her you love her because she is your mother...and that will never end...but for you and her to get along.you have to stay away to consentrate on you and your wedding and your future husband...tell her the things she say is hurtful and no one will want to be there for someone that hurts them with words deeply..Tell her you know she is hurt about her mother but you are hurt too and you have each other..tell her you dont want to hurt herself but she hurting you way more...
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