A loved one I know suffers from a combination of depression and anxiety and when I upset them they frequently lash out physically and verbally at me or themselves in various different ways. We are having an argument right now and even though I've said I'm sorry and did what they said would help, we're to day three of the arguing and them lashing out at themselves or me. They have tried several antidepressants and none really worked for their depression or anxiety. They also don't respond well to therapists or anything of that nature and they don't want to go through ECT or TMS. What else can be done?