Thank you =) I'll try it out =)
Hey wootace
I understand that in your situation it is difficult to "be" anything at all.
Your suffering dominates body, mind and spirit.
One thing that you know by now is not to believe, everything you think.
There's a kind and loving spirit within you. It's there, I know!
I'll offer you a few suggestions that won't cost you a penny.
Search: "Deva Premal".
Find her recent album-Mantras for Precarious Times-
Choose the free audio clip to play the first mantra -Om Gom Gunna Patayei Namaha-
After listening to it, continue with chanting along.
Repeat enough till you have listened to and chanted it 108 times -that's consecutive in one setting and the free sample plays it perhaps 15-16 times,so it's not so long-
Do this daily for a minimum for 21 consecutive days and optimum 40 days.
This mantra is to remove obstacles in your life. If for any reason you cannot do it one day
you must start all over from the beginning.
Eventually, once completed., something shifts in your life(close to miraculous and inexplicable to our intellect),
Each time you post, I will try to respond back to you with a suggestion.
So please post again soon.
Blessings,
Nikodicreta
Wow, thank you both =)
To Nikodicreta - While I greatly appreciate the help, I'm not a spiritualist. As for the medicines, they are too pricey for me and if I ask my mom to buy them, I'd have to explain these things to her... She's got enough stress on her right now. And I don't have a health care provider.
To MarnieJan712 - Same as above... Greatly appreciated, but I can't do any of that. And its not just that I don't want to have to tell my mom, but money is super tight around here. I wish you the best, though! And yeah, the scars do lighten up. Just ***** knowing that they are still there and looking at them just makes the urge a bit stronger (as well as the tingling sensation that starts to itch).
Once again, thank you both. I had come to similar conclusions of getting help... but I was hoping there would be some other way... somehow? Thinking about it, guess there really isn't much room for other options... XD
Wow, I can really relate to your story. I didn't start cutting until I was 20, but I did it for 10 years. I ave now gone 7 months not doing it, they lighten a little, but the urges are still there. I have abused sleeping pills too. I have been feeling more suicidal lately, but I work with a therapist. I can vent and I've gotten to trust her a lot. I can tell her just about anything that's on my mind. A therapist might be ablr to help you explain your issues with your family and bf. I hope the best for you. THings can get better. Please get help, there's nothing wrong with it.
Hey wootace.
Welcome to the forum.
It is tough to live like this, so I'll give you a couple suggestions to help you.
I'm glad you decided to communicate this here in this forum.
Please checkout "Amoryn" which is a natural supplement formula
for depression and anxiety. Synergistically with "Seredyn" (another supplement formula)
it provides a better option than any prescribed drugs. See the studies.
For under $100 you can try this therapy for 2 months -60 day money back.
No side effects and good results.
I have no affiliation with the supplier of this product - I do holistic psychotherapy in Canada.
The other suggestion is, to seek a good holistic energy psychotherapist in your area.
This type of therapy is very efficient and again with good results. just do a search.
Once you feel a bit better, then you may consider to open up to your boyfriend or
someone else close to you. Give it a little time.
You can do this. Your Spirit is the overarching part of your Being, and when you are Spirit-driven, it will help you climb over the walls that are surrounding you.
You've made the first step by reading this post.
Here's something to hopefully inspire you a little ( specially with the 1st piece -Courage):
1. search: Justin Hines +Courage ( The video didn't open from the link I tried to give you)
2. http://www.youtube.com/user/JustinHinesOrange
I've seen "Justin Hines" in concert a couple weeks ago.
He has a severe joint disorder from birth, however this did not stop him pursue
his passion for music. He writes his own music and lyrics and sings so well!
Please do your own research, or check with your health care professional,
before making any decisions regarding your health.
Post again to ask any questions you may have or to give update.
Blessings
Nikodicreta