Well your situation is not normal. You shouldn't be getting leaks with a half-hard penis during foreplay UNLESS you were fully hard for a while and as you started to go soft again some pre-come will arise.
yeah I am thinking about swinging by planned parenthood and getting tested. Not sure if this is a mental problem or physical one. Some of the std symptoms I looked up were vague, thinking it could possibly be syphilis related?
yea get tested and make sure you're std free and then we can go from there...
keep me posted!
So I got tested and I am std free. So now I think it must be some sort of mental block or something. I have been depressed the past couple years. I made some lifestyle changes, stopped binge drinking, quit smoking ciggs, and began to workout again. Not sure if I have some sort of hangup from my last relationship it was pretty dysfunctional. Just moved to the are so I don't have any old girlfriends I can try out equipment on so in a week or so I am going to try and pick one up
I think anxiety may have been playing a major part in it or guilt. I totally blew it with the last chick. It was like a bad teen movie. We were messing around we went into my bedroom I went down on her she was loving it then she went down on me and i was totally soft. Not only was it soft it had shrunk. It was as small as when I get out of a cold swimming pool.
I'm glad to hear you're std free. Now lets get to the next possible issue. Masturbation...
How often do you masturbate? How many times a day or week?