Thank you for your reply...
upon further reading and google picture comparisons it appears that this is a case of a blocked pore/follicle and sebum is being trapped under the skin.
its more annoying than anything worrying because I can't give it to my gf as hard as I would like to lol but I do worry that it has become infected. I will try some hydrogen peroxide and also ask at the local CVS pharmacy. Maybe hydrocortisone might help?
Not sure when you are getting back to Canada to be able to have it checked, and I'm not a nurse, but it's possible from shaving caused a clogged folicle. I had that once where my underarm I felt a cyst. My doctor could feel it, and ordered an ultrasound. The ultrasound was set for around 2 days later. By then it was completely gone. Hopefully nothing other then that. I would recommend diluted hydrogen peroxide. Rubbing alcohol may be too drying and I think peroxide cleans things out rather then rubbing alcohol may be just to clean the surface and not in the follicle if that makes sense. Straight peroxide is fine, but I would dilute it a little as that could hurt. Anything like sex will just irritate it because of friction and other things, so if you can I would avoid it until this is resolved. I wouldn't recommend taking a needle to it, just let the peroxide get it cleaned with just a cotton ball. Sometimes by squeezing pus out, or blood, can actually make it more irritated and can make it look worse. I would only shower with soap that doesn't have a lot of perfume in it. My skin is sensitive and I use Dove exfoliating soap and have no issue with it. Once you towel dry, use diluted peroxide and when not out maybe wear boxer shorts to let it get air. Sorry I'm not a dude, so that's all I can think of. I haven't had the greatest luck with shaving cream, so I tend to use conditioner as my shaving cream, may sound weird, but I stopped having razor irritation. Good luck!
Any help/advice woild be greatly appreciated.