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2 partners since my last HIV test- I am SO STUPID and WORRIED. HELP!

Hello,

Since testing negative last December, I have had 2 partners. One I know well, and one who was random.
Guy 1: we mutually masturbated each other and grinded naked. I definitely touched his presemen and then my own penis.

Guy 2: the random guy I met on Grindr (the gay iPhone app). he is a flight attendant and said he has a boyfriend but they're open. Age 30. We mutually masturbated, and he touched his penis and then put it in my mouth. He pre came a lot. I then touched his anus while stroking my penis, and he tried to suck me but I said no. I ejaculated on his chest, and then he did.


Am I at risk? I just feel so guilty after these one time hookups, even though Guy number 1 I know well.

Also- is it possible to get HIV from the actual blood test? I got one 3 weeks ago which came out negative (I've never had anal or vaginal sex period) but now I am getting sick with a fever!
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I had a 5th partner. He deep throated me unprotected oral, then he ejaculated on my Levi's and it hit my mouth. Is masturbating myself with some of his semen risky?
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WHY do you keep insisting on putting yourself into these situations when you KNOW you cannot handle it.  Despite how much you've been told that ALL of these activities are ZERO risk, you continue to question it.  There is nothing more we can tell you, we're only repeating ourselves.  Time to move on...get yourself some professional help!
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Still no risk because HIV transmission occurs inside the body not outside it.
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What if it went in my anus somehow? Oh, he also fingered me!!!!!!!!!!! But I held onto his penis so I was sure it didn't go in!!!
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No risk from oral sex and no risk from the semen on the sheets,you have absolutely nothing to be concerned about.
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OK- 4 partners in 2 months.

The most recent: I gave him unprotected oral sex, with chapped lips. Also, when he ejaculated he shot everywhere- including on my sheets, and I believe some trickled under my anus. It was on my sheets right by my anus.

Is this risky? Also, I had an ingrown nail on my finger and it still hurts- I am pretty sure I touched his semen.
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