is it a coincidence

[lv647]

Hi Dr! I am come from china.so my english is not good.I have sex with a sex worker(02/24/2014).  
That's my first sex with a sex worker.so i am soften.I take off the condom.she give a oral sex again.When she did that(oral sex),suddenly,her tongue was  inside my urethra(Get into the urethra mouth tongue).It's just like penis into the vagina(Tongue into the urethra).and put on another new one.I am sure her fingers have Vaginal Fluid.when she put it on ,the Vaginal Fluid could be in the condom
When the sex is over,I remove the condom.My fingers get the vaginal fluids.Don 't clean with paper.But I wash my penis and glans in bathtub.Don't wash in shower
After that I have a joint pains on my fingers and toes,Wrist(02/26/2014).Muscle pains on my arms and legs.Especially on my left leg(03/02/2014). and last two week they are gone.because i Record everyday.
My Foreskin is a little swelling (03/10/2014).but my Foreskin swelling is more redness day by day.
so i go to hospital.the doctor say may be a hsv-1/hsv-2.I tested but the result will come out on Tuesday next week
and tested hiv and Syphilis it is Negative.But it's just 19 days.but today my Foreskin swelling is not severe.
this is the first time to a sex worker.i am Regretted.nerver go to
i don't want to die.i don't get married.I am sorry for my parents.
every night when go to sleep i will cry
expect your answer
thanks

[Teak]

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[lv647]

sorry Teak.you said hiv is no risk
i have a question
but my behavior if it infects the hsv
because i went to hospital yestoday.The Dr. said it may be Herpes.I tested my blood.but the result will come out on Tuesday next week.
i don't understand

[lv647]

Thanks again Teak.
I will do a test.

[Teak]

You never had an exposure.

[lv647]

there is something important.
when i finished,i don't get out my penis.maybe I stay 5-10seconds in her vagina and i get out my penis.but the condom is still on my penis about 2/3
because i am soften.is this have any risk
i don't know where is wrong?the whole sex
all of you said that i don't have a risk
but my body told me that i'm not Healthy
teak you stick your Opinion.I don't have any risk for hiv

[Teak]

http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Prevention/Time-of-ARS/show/2122325

[lv647]

there is something important.
when i finished,i don't get out my penis.maybe I stay 5-10seconds in her vagina and i get out my penis.but the condom is still on my penis about 2/3
because i am soften.is this have any risk

[lv647]

please help me Dr