Just to recap because you have come to the forum many times, different situations:
No Risk for HIV from rimming your anus with his penis
No Risk for HIV from Oral Sex
No Risk for HIV from mutual masturbation
No Risk for HIV for protected anal/vaginal sex
HIV becomes inactive when exposed to air, unable to infect
You have never put yourself at risk for HIV.
If you ever engage in Unprotected anal/vaginal sex
If you ever use re-used needles for drugs
Then you have put yourself at risk...period!
Also I gave a blowjob with chapped lips, risky? i definitely tasted presemen