Look at the date on this post,you need to post your own question on a new thread.
Thank you ... I had the same exact experience where my an on-line hook-up who pulled out and I noticed the condom broke. He put a second condom on immediately which stayed in tact. The paranoia is in full throttle. He too said that he was negative... he swore on it (even to God), but I'm still taking a strangers word. He's bi-sexual and said the last time he hooked up with a guy was with me and it was about a year ago. Of course I'm worried about pre-cum!
I too feel like the chances are lower then to take the harsh PEP. Your blogs helped me with my decision. Thank you for blogging on this subject. I think I'm going to call him to see if he will get tested with me.
Reread the replies you were given.
Thanks for both of your input. I went to the STD clinic and spoke with a counselor. After the conversation, I felt like the minimal risk of exposure I sustained did not justify the harshness of PEP on my body and my immune system. I am kind of over this incident, and feeling much better. My gut feeling is that my partner is negative, and I am too. I am still in contact with him, but I have not asked him to be tested with me. I am going to get tested myself next month and then in 3 months just to be sure. But until then, life goes on!
Thanks again, and be well! :)
Good advice. After thinking about it for a little while, I am leaning against PEP. I don't think the risks are high enough to warrant it. I do have health insurance, but my insurance ALWAYS gives me a hard time with prescriptions, so I'm sure they will stomp their feet on this one too. (I heard that PEP is $600 to $1,000.)
I might go to the STD clinic tomorrow morning and discuss it with the doctors/RN's there to get their feedback, before I make my final decision. (I feel they might be able to give me even better advice than my primary care physician since this is their specialty.)
Thanks again for your comments. Please feel free to continue to advise if you (or anyone else on these forums) have any additional thoughts on this to help put my mind at ease with this decision. I appreciate it!
You can discuss it with your doctor. I hope you have good insurance or plenty of money because a 28 day supply is very expensive. It would be alot cheaper to take your friend to be tested at the time you see your doctor.
Hey thanks for your response!
I do kind of agree with you that PEP might not really warranted here, given that my partner is a friend of mine and I **THINK** he is relatively low-risk. He has already told me he tested negative and has only had one sexual encounter since his test this past summer. Because my friend/partner is not confirmed positive, as you said, it might be up to the individual clinician's judgment as to whether or not they would be willing to write me an Rx. And would it be worth it for me to endure the side effects of PEP over a month's course of taking it? Got to weigh the risks vs the benefits.
Would you recommend I see my doctor tomorrow to discuss PEP or am I wasting my time in doing so? Am I overanalyzing?
Sorry, Teak, forgot to type in your name in the "To:" field... bumping up this post again to bring my previous response to your attention :)
No, Teak, I don't believe so.
I just spoke with him and he says he was tested Negative this Summer 2010. Since then, he has only had sex one time (with a condom), before me.
It's just that I feel one might not even be entirely sure of one's own risks, so his verbal reassurance isn't 100% reassuring to me.
Right now, I am just trying to decide if I need PEP or not before that 72 hour window closes on me. I know I am coming off as paranoid, but until one has had an accidental exposure, you don't know how scary and disturbing it can be.
It's always better to be safe than sorry. Which is why PEP is still on my mind.