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Condom may slip off , some details follow - thank you in advance
Hello friends,
I am always committed to safe sex and I am very cautious about safe sex.
Today I had sex with a high-end CSW(500USD/h) who says she gets check-ups every half a year.
I wore the condom when I was not fully erected. And when I got erected, we processed to sex. I guess at that time the condom did not cover all my penis. Since she was above me, I was not able to see whether the condom covered all the way to my shaft or not. The sex lasted ~ 2 minutes. After I ejaculated, I tried to move out my penis slowly. However, I realized when I moved my penis out, the condom was not on my penis. It is probably because I had lots of pre-cum which made it very slippery. The CSW told me that the condom stayed in her body and she tried to hold it while I pulled out so that the semen did not go out. Later on, I checked the condom and I saw my ejaculate in the condom. It is at CSW's interest that the condom worked and she told me it stayed on the half way of my penis.
In this case, I guess I am just not very confident whether condom was covering my penis or not, although I am confident that the ejaculate was in the condom after the sex.
The reason I am specifically anxious is: 1. I don't want to have HIV, like all others. 2. I know some strain have drug-resistance. And I don't want to die young....
Have anyone had experience of condom slippery and do you think I am at risk?
Thank you!
I am always committed to safe sex and I am very cautious about safe sex.
Today I had sex with a high-end CSW(500USD/h) who says she gets check-ups every half a year.
I wore the condom when I was not fully erected. And when I got erected, we processed to sex. I guess at that time the condom did not cover all my penis. Since she was above me, I was not able to see whether the condom covered all the way to my shaft or not. The sex lasted ~ 2 minutes. After I ejaculated, I tried to move out my penis slowly. However, I realized when I moved my penis out, the condom was not on my penis. It is probably because I had lots of pre-cum which made it very slippery. The CSW told me that the condom stayed in her body and she tried to hold it while I pulled out so that the semen did not go out. Later on, I checked the condom and I saw my ejaculate in the condom. It is at CSW's interest that the condom worked and she told me it stayed on the half way of my penis.
In this case, I guess I am just not very confident whether condom was covering my penis or not, although I am confident that the ejaculate was in the condom after the sex.
The reason I am specifically anxious is: 1. I don't want to have HIV, like all others. 2. I know some strain have drug-resistance. And I don't want to die young....
Have anyone had experience of condom slippery and do you think I am at risk?
Thank you!
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No one wants to read and decipher all of those details.
If the head of your penis was covered during intercourse, you had no risk for HIV.
If it was not, or if you are not sure, you can test with a 4th-generation test any time 28 days or longer after your exposure to know your status for sure.
If the head of your penis was covered during intercourse, you had no risk for HIV.
If it was not, or if you are not sure, you can test with a 4th-generation test any time 28 days or longer after your exposure to know your status for sure.
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Thank you! And sorry for too much information. I guess what I am wondering is that will I notice it if my head of penis was not covered?
Just to clarify, you can only be infected when your penis is penetrating. hiv is a fragile virus when it comes to transmission because it is dead in air - so if you touched her vagina with your penis after you were finished penetrating then it is zero risk.
The condom only has to protect the head of your penis. Are you saying that when the condom fell off part was sticking out so she pulled it all out?
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Thanks for your reply. So she was the one who pulled it all out and I could only remember what I saw. I just double checked with her: after I ejaculated, she tried to hold the condom to make sure the ejaculate did not come out while my penis became flaccid. (I think if it was the case I have nothing to worry about) Then she gradually raised her body while still trying to hold the condom. When I pulled my penis all out and when I saw my penis, I did not see the condom on it. Then I saw that she was holding the condom and she was also showing me that the condom was intact with ejaculate inside. Although the condom always had fluid, I think it is very easy to distinguish ejaculate from other body fluids.
Your explanation is confusing. Please answer my question.
She always held the condom until I pulled my penis out to make sure the ejaculate did not come out.
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