Hello everyone, I'm male from south east asia. As in my country knowledge about HiV is very limited and controlled, I hope someone on this forum could help me. I went to a spa centre on 9 April, got message by a nude lady therapist (unknown HIV status), and in the end she gave me unprotected oral for about 5 mins (not really an oral, but more like a kiss on my penis). Then she rub her back and her *** (not her anus) on my penis, untill I ejaculate on her back. While she rubbing her back and her *** to my penis, I also put my finger inside her vagina (no cut on my fingers). For about 5 mins. Since that day, I worried so much getting HIV infection. I could not concentrate on my job at all. My chess and neck sometime coloured in red since 24 April and fell a little itchy. No light fever, sore throat, or anything. Just a red chess and neck. My questions are: (1) Are fingering and unprotected oral could transmit HIV? (2) When she rub her back and *** to my penis, would it be possible that her fluids get into my penis and transmit HiV? (3) are my red chess and neck symptopms of ARS? (4) should I get tested for HIV and what kind of test should I take and when? Thank you very much for all your help. I'm very hopleess right know and need your help. Thank you very much for your kind help.