This answers all of your HIV questions, and if you can think of any more just reread about the 3. You had zero risk therefore testing is irrelevant to your situation because you had zero risk. HIV is a fragile virus, which is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.
Only 3 adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal with a penis
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex with a penis
3. sharing needles that you inject with.
The only way to get HIV is if you did one of the 3. The situation you describe is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. Doctors have calculated the risk from what you describe to be less than that of being hit by a meteor, therefore no one will get HIV from what you did in the next 40 years of your life either. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established, so no detail that you can add to your encounter will change it from zero risk.
You are best off to stop googling for death cold turkey if you want to relax and get back to your normal life. People cough on your lips and door knobs so flu is to be expected at any time. This shows that you should stop examining your body cold turkey "but when I was visited they said I didn’t had anything, " since you have no medical training and don't know what lymph is supposed to feel like yet you are convinced that you have made a diagnosis of lymph' issues. I really doubt you have muscular movement issues too, but see doc if concerned since this is not an hiv issue.
Relax and move on.
I just want to thank AnxiousNoMore for the reply’s to my post. I took a 4th gen test at 4weeks after the incident (32 days) and i’m Waiting the result. I hope it will be negative. I’m scared to death because when I was thinking back to the day I had the sexual experience I remembered that he was pushing back and forth his penis against my anus rapidly. I had once in my life a penetrative experience as bottom and I remember that it was very painful. In this case I just only felt the bumps in my butthole, and I remember that they were just a bit annoying but no extreme pain or sensation that he went through the sphincter. Only a couple of times he pushed harder and it was uncomfortable, so I said him to slow down, but again I think there wasn’t penetration as I didn’t felt that pain. However I asked him if he penetrated me just to be sure and he said “Absolutely no, 0 penetration”. I’m still scared because when I had those symptoms I thought they could be related to a Ars. Now i’m Scared to death waiting the results. After the 3 days fever I continued to experience throat discomfort, not properly pain just a itchy and sensible throat, for a week and a half. I don’t know what to think. Is it possible that some or a bit of precum went into the rectum during frottage? Sorry for my repetitiveness but it’s a hard time for me. I forgot saying that my neck lymph nodes went back normal after a week and a half from the fever. Thank you and sorry for my fears, but I can’t explain those symptoms.
It is absolutely normal to receive a negative result for a no risk scenario.
It would have been wiser to invest in to a one-on-one session with a counselor because if your are worried about this non risky scenario, this is not the first time you are scared about an irrational fear and it's not going to be the last time either.
The problem seems to be something else, a therapist will help you over come it. Please reach out for that help to address your concern objectively. HIV is not your concern.