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Fingering and unprotected oral sex = HIV?

Hello everyone, I'm male from south east asia. As in my country knowledge about HiV is very limited and controlled,  I hope someone on this forum could help me. I went to a spa centre on 9 April, got message by a nude lady therapist (unknown HIV status), and in the end she gave me unprotected oral for about 5 mins (not really an oral, but more like a kiss on my penis). Then she rub her back and her *** (not her anus) on my penis, untill I ejaculate on her back. While she rubbing her back and her *** to my penis, I also put my finger inside her vagina (no cut on my fingers). For about 5 mins. Since that day, I worried so much getting HIV infection. I could not concentrate on my job at all. My chess and neck sometime coloured in red since 24 April and fell a little itchy. No light fever, sore throat, or anything. Just a red chess and neck. My questions are: (1) Are fingering and unprotected oral could transmit HIV? (2) When she rub her back and *** to my penis, would it be possible that her fluids get into my penis and transmit HiV? (3) are my red chess and neck symptopms of ARS? (4) should I get tested for HIV and what kind of test should I take and when? Thank you very much for all your help. I'm very hopleess right know and need your help. Thank you very much for your kind help.
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Thank you very much for your info and help.
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366749 tn?1544695265
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Your risk scenario does not shift from Zero even by an iota, if there is no unprotected penetration is part of your episode
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Hi there, thank you so much for the info. However, I would to get a clearer info on the activity which the nude therapist rubbed her back and her *** (up and down) on my penis. Don't you think would it be possible that her genital fluids came and get into my penis? This has become my concern, since i read that HiV virus could last for sometime in the open air. Thus, perhaps, since my penis and her vagina are close enough, will it allow the HIV virus to be transmitted in a short periodic of time? I'm very sorry for my anxiety, since i don't have enough info about this. Would you please answer spefically my question on this situation (rubbing her back and *** to my penis). PLUS, would be rationale if I get an HiV test? Anyone please also give comment on my question, as that will help to build my understanding towards the situation. Very much appreciated on your help and info. Thank you.
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366749 tn?1544695265
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Unprotected oral and hand to genital contact does not put you at HIV risk. HIV spread via the only following routes

1. Unprotected anal or vaginal sex
2. Sharing needles in drugs
3. From mother to child
4. Transfusion of un-screened blood. (not a threat in developed world any more)
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