HIV RISK

[Devore94]

I am a 21 yo male guy, I've met with a men whose HIV I do not know. Previous to the encounter I had an episode of diarrhea with following anal burning (probably some bloodless hemorrhoid) . During our sexual intercourse I received oral sex (w/o ejaculation) rimming and anal fingering. Now he fingered me with the same hand he used to finger himself, then we had sex (I was active and used a condom, who did not break) (It was dark but there seemed not be any blood whatsoever from both of us, as soon as I went home I checked my *** to see if there was blood but it was fine).
My questions are
1) Assuming the worse, which basically is that he is HIV+, was his fingering firstly his *** and then mine a risky activity?
2) Do I need PEP (As I write I'm still in a 4hours windows of the potential exposure)?
3) I am a blood donor, do I have to report this as unprotected potentially infected sex intercourse?

[JamesD1991]

I understand. Please just wear condoms for anal and/or vaginal intercourse and you'll avoid HIV.

[Devore94]

Thank you very much James, have a good day (you just saved me from anxiety, I thought I knew HIV spreading vectors but still panic got the best of me)

[JamesD1991]

Still, nothing you mention is a risk

[Devore94]

Thank you very much James, I actually just checked my anus back and there is some blood (few very small bloodmarks on the toilet paper, probably due to the inflammation + masturbation), does this change my risk profile?
Anyway, thanks for the answer I was worrying about infection through rectal fluids spreading via his ""dirty"" fingers to my rectal mucosa/hemorrhoid lesions and this post scared me quite a bit:

http://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/anal/show/387312