As the good Dr HHH always says, people don't usually lie about their status, so that itself is a good sign. Another thing you have to your advantage is the fact that you say you realized your condom failed and stopped a few seconds later, which again may lower your risk - and also the fact that you were the insertive partner.
Having said that, am I saying you shouldn't test ? Certainly not.
This isn't an odds game, so you must get tested. You know the right times for the tests. Just stay calm and do them.
I also ask him when was the last time he got tested he said over a month ago.
So before I had sex , I ask the person if he was std negative and he said yes he even ask me too should I believe him ?
You had a risk, and you need to get tested. Take a DUO at 4 weeks post exposure for an excellent indication. Follow up at 12 weeks post exposure for a conclusive result.