Please can you answer me !
You were never at risk of HIV, as there was no penetration or exposure to shared needles.
We are volunteers so you have to be patient, please. Risks for HIV include unprotected vaginal or anal sex or sharing IV drug needles. In no way is a hand job a risk for HIV. Air inactivates the virus. It doesn't matter what was on her hands. You never needed to test. After 3 months, any test is conclusive. You don't have HIV.