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1409114 tn?1323866002

My first sexual encounter that I deeply regret

I come from a conservative society and we do not have sex before marriage. One night I was very depressed so I went to a bar and had a lot of drinks. A prostitue came to me and I found myself going with her to her house. She give me an oral before puting the condom on. Then I had vaginal sex with her with a condom on during which I fingered her labia. I touched her labia with my tongue for no more that a second. Excuse me for all the details which I regret writing. Next day I woke up and I couldn't beleive what happened. I had diarrhea for the next 10 days, I couldn't eat, I lost my appetite, nausea, and mild fever. I am scared I have contracted HIV. Sometimes I feel tingling in my groins and I am out of order. Friends and family are confused why am I so quiet and depressed but I cannot share my fears with them.
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1409114 tn?1323866002
It was fingerprick tests and the dr. told me that it was slightly pos
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1409114 tn?1323866002
I tested twice positive with the Acon and once neg with the other test
I guess moving on is not easy right now
Please bear me in this difficult time and tell me why I should move on
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1409114 tn?1323866002
positive using Acon and negative using oraquick
It was more than 30 degrees in the room where I tested.
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1409114 tn?1323866002
I test today 6 weeks with 2 quick tests
one is positive and the other is negative
Please help me understand
They told me that I am 90% positive
and asked for a western blot
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186166 tn?1385259382
your symptoms are not hiv related.
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1409114 tn?1323866002
It's been 4-5 weeks now and I am having this white tongue, diarrehea that comes and goes and what really freaked me out is the swolled lymph node under my chin.
I did not know what type of condom I used. What if I used a low quality condom? If this was seroconversion, can I test now or shall I wait?
Those symptoms really bother me.
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