hiv concerne

[marvinjefrey]

hello to all,


im a filipino working here in malaysia,last week (dec 03-2011) i had a sex with a thai prostitute free lance here
just comming as tourist then work for sex. we did some humping and rubing with my boxers on and she was bare
after that we did have vaginal sex with condoms on.she put the condom on but my penis is not fully erect
after she stroke my penis with her hand so it will become hard .after a while she insert it on her vagina and she ride me for about a min or 2 after a turn her and i do the pumping.after i release inside her with condoms on and pulled out i notice my condom was stil on but my penis is little bit soft and only very little sperm on the inside of the condom tip and my whole shaft is wet .did not check if condom broke or just my sperm dripped .
now m so worried maybe she is infected with HIV and i got it now? after 2 days i feel very weak with muscle spams and twitching a lot .heavy headache and so bitter sad.

1.can i get HIV on my accounts above?
2.what are the chances of me geting infected if she has HIV ?
3.she has many tatoos at the back and she dont speak english so no way to ask her.

thanks i need your advice...

[RainLover71]

Good attitude.

[marvinjefrey]

thanks sir ,thanks to all and maybe im only to paranoid about all of this as u all said its not a risk and no further testing required.
thanks to all again and have a blessed day...

i will always promote condom use and stay with my married relationship i think it will be the best or surest way not to get the HIV and any std's

[marvinjefrey]

i know most CSW if not all basicaly they want to protect themselves rather than the client being protected by them, what do u think the risk on this thai prostitute as from my accounts? is this a too risky sex act I made? if the condom just in case fail but still covered my penis head as LIZZIE said s still ok safe?

thanks again.

[RainLover71]

Condom failure is to obvious.It never happened,you're worrying for nothing and you need to forget this ever happened and get on with your regular life.

[marvinjefrey]

she cant speak a single word in english and she is the one again who continued to remove the condom.she then put it on a paper towel and trow it out.anyway the top part i think is intact since i see some semen inside but maybe a few drops only as the nipple part have only the semen but most of the condom wich i saw is intact except the back part . i forget to mention the thai CSW never wants any kissing and touching on her parts below.no blowjobs also she only masturbated me whit condom on and then insert strait to her vagina. do u think still no risk? i ask my thai friend to call her up and ask her status she said to him she is ok dont know if true.

[Teak]

If the CSW saw that it had failed you would have been advised in not too many nice words. Sex is her livelihood and she's out to protect herself from you.

[marvinjefrey]

thanks teak , i am not 100% sure the condom was not broken or teared since while i am removing it and still looking if all ok  the CSW removed it from my penis and put it in the garbage bag.never had a chance to double check but from what i see it is intact from the top side dont know from the back side of my penis
maybe it has a tear or broken ? do condoms when break or teared will they split open to get easily noticed? as i said looking down at it from the top side all is ok did not  check the back side. thanks again and more power....

[Teak]

Had you had a condom failure you would have known when removing the condom. No you do not need any testing.

[marvinjefrey]

thank you teak for the reply , when u mean it is not possible is it the dripping of the semen on my shaft bec it is soft before i remove the condom or is it the
vaginal fluid may have entered my condom due to my penis being soft or condom broken? and lastly do i need testing for my sexual accounts above?

[Teak]

No it is not possible.

[marvinjefrey]

ok thanks lizzie i think so maybe it just so happen that i did not ejaculate to many during  that time the reason i said it drips or maybe broken and vaginal fluid enter my condom is bec of the wetness of my shaft when i remove my condom,and m a little bit soft at the time,possible ?

thanks and god bless...

[marvinjefrey]

thanks a lot ill be more carefull next time you really help me a lot with your answers.as for my questions regarding the semen on the tip of the condom why is it so little is it possible it slip?,what do u think?

thanks and more power..

[LIZZIE LOU]

you had no risk

ars comes at 2-4 WEEKS post infection

[marvinjefrey]

and lastly can HIV ars come as quickly as  days after exposure?

thanks again.

[marvinjefrey]

thanks a ot for your quick reply , as far as i remember the condom is stil on my penis when i came out of her but the semen is not so many at the tip and my shaft is so wet of semen or maybe vaginal fluid if it is brocken m not sure about this.am a little bit drunk during that time.  so my other question is it possible that the semen on the tip drip off because my penis is already bit soft during the removal of condom or maybe the condom have some hole or ripped wich i did not notice? sorry for the questions am just so worried.
is this a big risk? need testing? thanks.

ps sorry for my grammar and english.

[LIZZIE LOU]

as long as the condom covered the head of your penis, you had NO risk.