Oral is not a risk. If he entered you (which you should know if it happened) then it is a risk.
I don't know how to be more descriptive, I was wet, he was covered in precum, he pushed his penis against my anus with the intention of going in, as soon as I felt this I moved away, BUT i did feel my sphincter expand with the pressure, thus the wet tip might have come in contact with my rectum.
Imagine this, pretend his penis was 7 inches long, when he pushed in maybe less than a centimeter might have gone in far enough for the tip (maybe 6 milimeters or less) to cume in contact with my rectum.
I don't know past what point is considered penetration. To me it is the part where I feel my sphincter actually making an effort for the penis to go in, but in this case the fact that I was wet and that we was covered in precum made it easy for the penis head to go far enough in, meaning not actualy inside, but far enough to leave some precum in the entering of my rectum...
I don't know if i'm explaining myself right....
just picture how wet we were, i moved away as soon as i felt the pressure, it was less than a second, not enough time for him to even accomodate his penis to actually go in, my my *** (sorry for the description) was slippery, and so the tip of the penis, probably 1/5 or 1/6 of it might have slipped easily and far enough to leave some precum in the "entrance" of my rectum.
Only you can answer if he entered you or not.
Sorry, i thought i commented before, he did not go in. There was no penetration. My doubt is, he pushed his penis with the intention to go in, we were really wet, i'm scared he might have left some precum in the entrance of my rectum where the sphincter is located.
Please don't answer if i know if he penetrated me or not, he did not.
I just want to know the facts on all of this.
in other words, even >without< penetration i'm scared he might have gone far enough in for any risk to happen.
please help.
can you give me more info? Dr. hook from this forum says there might be a risk
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV---Prevention/Brief-Frottage-Then-Protected-Anal/show/1774804
i've changed after this experience. i really don't want to have hiv. i don't want to put myself at risk ever again.