Hi I am a 30 years old male from Sydney, Australia. I have never had a relationship so far. I have had sex with 13 women so far of which 10 were CSWs and the other 3 times was a threesome with straight couples.
I have received protected oral sex 9 out of 10 times. The one time I received unprotected oral sex was with the female partner of a couple. It lasted for about 25 minutes with two sessions of 15 and 10 mins. In between this she gave unprotected oral to her male partner who came in her mouth and she swallowed, and also received unprotected penile-vaginal sex from him. She ejaculated a lot. The woman told me her periods stopped a day ago. Then we had protected intercourse. The condom seemed to have worked and there was no blood on the condom. So in the next oral sesssion I came in her mouth. I did not give her cunnilingus. She did give me some anilingus. The couple had been together for 4 years when I met them and said they have unprotected vaginal sex only with each other.
A week ago I had protected sex with a CSW who said she does unprotected sex for some extra money. Once we were done I pulled out a condom and there were some secretions on the condom which could have been hers OR of the male she was with right before... My condom worked fine though as there was no apparent breakage.
I have given unprotected cunnilingus to 3 women so far. I did not swallow as I have minor bleeding gum and mouth ulcer problem.
So to summarise:
Unprotected penile-vaginal sex = 0 out of 13
Unprotected fellatio on me = 1 out of 13
Unprotected cunnilingus on the woman = 3 out of 3
I don't have any symptoms except that I developed some mouth ulcers lately, I have had liver problems for long. It is cold in these months (June) in Sydney, the flu and stuff is affecting everyone anyway.
Please assess if I need HIV specific testing and why.
Thanks a lot in advance. You guys are doing a great job!