im a woman who recently had unprotected sex a few times within the last with an on an off partner, the last time i had sex with him unprotected i started my period straight after. I have asked him if im at risk for any std and he says no and gets quite irritated.
The thing is i have an std which could increase my risk of getting hiv, i also have symptoms which include:
swollen lymph node on neck
pain and aches in my shoulder
weakness in arms
bouts of a high temperature
night sweats where im soaked
extreme fatigue
sudden sharp pains
and just a general feeling of weakness
I know that i need to get tested and i plan on doing that soonish and will repeat again three months, im just so scared that when i do get tested it might not be good news, i dont know what to do, i know that anxiety can bring on symptoms as im an anxious person but ive never felt like this. I know hes 100% heterosexual and i know that its much more difficult for a can to catch hiv from a woman but its not impossible.
Based on my symptoms do you think im at risk