Condoms are designed to split wide open when they fail. Therefore, if there was a condom break, it would've been very obvious and there would be no doubt. Using a condom prevents HIV. Any cuts or scrapes exposed to body fluids that are outside the body and exposed to air are not at risk. You had no risk.
Hello again everyone and Merry Christmas... ok one last question just to ease my mind, as the mind loves to play tricks
I know the rubbish about micro holes in condoms is a myth which that doesn’t concern me.
But I would definitely know about a broken condom correct?
When I pulled out it looked intact from above. Then she removed the condom and it was in her hand and I asked if it were broken and she replied “no” and showed it to me in her hand where I could see semen.
Considering there was semen in the condom that’s a good indicator it wasn’t broken at all?
I’m not trying to sound stupid, I just don’t know what a broken condom looks like and am unsure how obvious it is. Like I said originally I think it was intact as it was full with semen.
Hello again everyone and Merry Christmas... ok one last question just to ease my mind, as the mind loves to play tricks
I know the rubbish about holes in condoms is a myth which that doesn’t concern me.
But I would definitely know about a broken condom correct?
When I pulled out it looked intact from above. Then she removed the condom and it was in her hand and I asked if it were broken and she replied “no” and showed it to me in her hand where I could see seamen.
Considering there was seamen in the condom that’s a good indicator it wasn’t broken at all?
Being paranoid doesn't change facts. This is not how people get HIV. That's a fact. If you can't accept this, then it is time to talk to a therapist. Sincerely, it's now worth constant worry so if you have that, then get some help for anxiety.
If you had protected vaginal intercourse, then you had no risk for HIV. All that needs to be covered is the head of your penis so the base is not going to be a source of transmission eve if you had a shaving sore there. You had a barrier to HIV transmission so you do not need to worry or test.