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care but unfortunately

I carefully put a condom on my boy partner.
I carefully give oral for about 20 seconds.
then we made sex.
He started to **** me.
He just put his two-third of penis into my anus. Then, within about 30 seconds a guest knocked my house.
So, we stopped sex and I carefully removed the condom from his penis.
Then I tested the condom by filling water in it.
drop by drop of water leaked out out of the condom from inside, near the tip from a point.
Is it condom failure?
Please assesss my risk
My partner is HIV unknown status/.
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I had a fever and body ache.
Are they ARS?
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no need for self testing, instead accept the fact that the condom you used during your protected sex did not fail/break.......  give urself a break.....   be happy and accept it..... this is the start...
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Why my test of condom did not show catastrophically?
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He doesn't need to test.
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All you are seeking is just comfort, not scientific facts. Be a man, go to a test, it tells everything. I was exposed to HIV danger, the only thing I think will be assuring is a test instead of anyone's opinion.
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Can you explain me?
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What you mean? I don;t understand.
I tested it today.
I first made a hole by piercing the new condom with a lancet and then I wore the condom
I completely masturbated myself while condom was on mine.
Condom did not fail catastrophically. I used enough force while masturbating.
Why did not fail catastrophically?
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Nothing more we can tell you.

You either did not make a hole or you did not put the condom on all the way. Your penis would have went through the hole if you had done so.
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today, I tested the condom by making a lancet hole and then I put it on my penis.
I masturbated until I ejaculated and then observed the condom rupture.
Nothing happened except the original hole and not rupture.
I masturbated vigorously to test the condom.
Now, how do I accept condom rupture is catastrophic?
please mention me
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How long ago were these acts?
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Why I need to test for HIV?
I know I have to test for other STDs.
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If you have never tested for HIV then test. It is recommended to test every year for HIV as well as STD's.
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I want to restart my new life. But I did bad things in my past.
I gave oral sex to many partners in my past. All were unprotected. Sometimes, my lips are bleeding and had fresh lip fissures while giving oral sex to them due to cold weather in our town. Sometimes I had oral ulcers. Sometimes I mutually masturbated with precum on fingers with guys. Moreover, some boys fingered me with precum on his fingers. All they risky for HIV?DO I need to test for all these manners?
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Thank you very much, all experts and members. I feel very well now
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No where does it advise you to fill a condom with water to check for holes. If the condom had a hole in it, it was made after/while taking the condom off. If a small hole was to develop on the condom with 1 thrust the penis would be exposured. You did not have a risk.
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I fear so much now because I now know that he had unsafe sex history.
My friend from a clinic said that if I really observed a hole after sex by water pouring, it mean the condom had failed in one way or another and is risky and need to test.
What should I do now? Experts?
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if no visible rupture, its not condom failure. you have safe sex...

he said like this, is it true?
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No you don't need to test.
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if so, can I forget about my condom and no need to test?
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You were already advised about condom failures.
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If so, finding a hole of water dripping on condom after sex without rupture does not mean condom failure. Is it right or wrong?
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Move on.
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