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2 partners since my last HIV test- I am SO STUPID and WORRIED. HELP!
Hello,
Since testing negative last December, I have had 2 partners. One I know well, and one who was random.
Guy 1: we mutually masturbated each other and grinded naked. I definitely touched his presemen and then my own penis.
Guy 2: the random guy I met on Grindr (the gay iPhone app). he is a flight attendant and said he has a boyfriend but they're open. Age 30. We mutually masturbated, and he touched his penis and then put it in my mouth. He pre came a lot. I then touched his anus while stroking my penis, and he tried to suck me but I said no. I ejaculated on his chest, and then he did.
Am I at risk? I just feel so guilty after these one time hookups, even though Guy number 1 I know well.
Also- is it possible to get HIV from the actual blood test? I got one 3 weeks ago which came out negative (I've never had anal or vaginal sex period) but now I am getting sick with a fever!
Since testing negative last December, I have had 2 partners. One I know well, and one who was random.
Guy 1: we mutually masturbated each other and grinded naked. I definitely touched his presemen and then my own penis.
Guy 2: the random guy I met on Grindr (the gay iPhone app). he is a flight attendant and said he has a boyfriend but they're open. Age 30. We mutually masturbated, and he touched his penis and then put it in my mouth. He pre came a lot. I then touched his anus while stroking my penis, and he tried to suck me but I said no. I ejaculated on his chest, and then he did.
Am I at risk? I just feel so guilty after these one time hookups, even though Guy number 1 I know well.
Also- is it possible to get HIV from the actual blood test? I got one 3 weeks ago which came out negative (I've never had anal or vaginal sex period) but now I am getting sick with a fever!
If you are going to be having sex with multiple partners it is always a good idea to have an STD screen once a year,you had no HIV risk from this latest encounter.
One more question:
Last night I met a guy, we got naked, we met at bar so he was little drunk, I was sober. I thought at one point he tried to position himself to sit on my penis but I, of course, avoided this. However, I did deep throat him, asked his status, and I touched his presemen and semen with my fingers that had some cuts on them from the cold weather.
6 men total. Are you guys really sure I'm not at risk? Last night my friend said you can get HIV from oral sex! So of course now I am freaking out.
Last night I met a guy, we got naked, we met at bar so he was little drunk, I was sober. I thought at one point he tried to position himself to sit on my penis but I, of course, avoided this. However, I did deep throat him, asked his status, and I touched his presemen and semen with my fingers that had some cuts on them from the cold weather.
6 men total. Are you guys really sure I'm not at risk? Last night my friend said you can get HIV from oral sex! So of course now I am freaking out.
I had a 5th partner. He deep throated me unprotected oral, then he ejaculated on my Levi's and it hit my mouth. Is masturbating myself with some of his semen risky?
WHY do you keep insisting on putting yourself into these situations when you KNOW you cannot handle it. Despite how much you've been told that ALL of these activities are ZERO risk, you continue to question it. There is nothing more we can tell you, we're only repeating ourselves. Time to move on...get yourself some professional help!
What if it went in my anus somehow? Oh, he also fingered me!!!!!!!!!!! But I held onto his penis so I was sure it didn't go in!!!
No risk from oral sex and no risk from the semen on the sheets,you have absolutely nothing to be concerned about.
OK- 4 partners in 2 months.
The most recent: I gave him unprotected oral sex, with chapped lips. Also, when he ejaculated he shot everywhere- including on my sheets, and I believe some trickled under my anus. It was on my sheets right by my anus.
Is this risky? Also, I had an ingrown nail on my finger and it still hurts- I am pretty sure I touched his semen.
The most recent: I gave him unprotected oral sex, with chapped lips. Also, when he ejaculated he shot everywhere- including on my sheets, and I believe some trickled under my anus. It was on my sheets right by my anus.
Is this risky? Also, I had an ingrown nail on my finger and it still hurts- I am pretty sure I touched his semen.
There is nothing further to discuss Lizzie told you how HIV is transmitted. You didn't do any of that. NO RISK.
No you did not have a risk by giving oral sex.
HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions; therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.
HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions; therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.
Also-
Is this a risk?
Giving oral sex to a man AFTER he has ejaculated, and presumably has traces of his semen on his penis- OR, if he touches your anus with a drop of his own semen after he has ejaculated?
PLEASE ADVISE :(
Is this a risk?
Giving oral sex to a man AFTER he has ejaculated, and presumably has traces of his semen on his penis- OR, if he touches your anus with a drop of his own semen after he has ejaculated?
PLEASE ADVISE :(
So the count is up to 3 men. The recent partner is 31, says he is clean. We had oral sex both ways- I gave it to him, with my chapped lips still. I also fingered his anus and he fingered mine briefly. No anal sex, of course. I rubbed his semen with my hand, that was chapped from the cold weather.
How long do I have to wait to get tested from my 3 partners in the past month?
How long do I have to wait to get tested from my 3 partners in the past month?
Yes,you should move on and most of those people infected with Hiv are from African nations where protection wasn't used and sadly lack of education on safe sex aswell.
OK- so I should just move on?
Can I ask- then why does it seem so many people still get HIV? Do gay men still really have anal sex unprotected with random men? I know I have had one night stands but NEVER anal sex!
So- should I just move on? Does HIV only happen when, sexually speaking, it's inside the body- not out? So no penetration, no risk?
Can I ask- then why does it seem so many people still get HIV? Do gay men still really have anal sex unprotected with random men? I know I have had one night stands but NEVER anal sex!
So- should I just move on? Does HIV only happen when, sexually speaking, it's inside the body- not out? So no penetration, no risk?
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