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plz help

A few days ago, I met with a gay. He wanted to sex with me, he inserted his finger in his Ana with lubricant. Then I refused, which made him angry. And he scratched my balls and make it bleed. I am very anxious now, because I have an open wound and I don't know whether there are some body fluid on his finger since he just fingered himself. Should I go to get some HIV test. Or I am no risk. Plz help me.
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Ignore theTIMEtoWAITspammer, his posts will be deleted.
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Thank you Nursegirll. I knew I was missing something else.
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Thanks for ur reply, I now understand because he didn't have any blood on his finger.
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480448 tn?1426948538
"When you have unprotected anal sex and the person cums in you it goes through the tears in your colon and then the virus enters your bloodstream and starts infecting you. Btw these are microscopic tears just big enough for the virus to enter your bloodstream."

That's not entirely accurate.  There doesn't have to be tears to allow for transmission.  The lining of rectum is itself a mucous membrane, which contains the receptor cells needed to cause transmission.

Plus, that's how a person who is on the receiving end of anal sex would become infected.  A "top" partner would become infected by being exposed to blood in the anus, the urethra of a male is the point of entry for that kind of intercourse.

To the OP.....unprotected anal sex is completely different than being scratched by a finger that someone inserted in their anus.  There's not much more we can tell you to convince you you didn't have a risk.  You're going to have to find a way to move on.

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i see thanks
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I would listen to Nursegirl and Teak they know exactly what there talking about. But if you still don't believe get a HIV Test which in your case it looks like is not needed.'
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They get infected by Anal due to the tears and friction of anal sex. Plus the Colon is part of your Immune system the one organ HIV specializes in going after. When you have unprotected anal sex and the person cums in you it goes through the tears in your colon and then the virus enters your bloodstream and starts infecting you. Btw these are microscopic tears just big enough for the virus to enter your bloodstream.
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then why people get infected through Ana sex?
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480448 tn?1426948538
You're not listening.  You did not have a risk.  There is no "fluid" in the anus that causes HIV.  

Time to move along.
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teak I have another question . Can u tell me what kind of fluid in the Ana will have the HIV ?
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NO.
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thanks teak the fluid on his finger doesnt make any changes right?
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You don't need an HIV test.
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thanks for ur reply, so I don't need to get the test for HIV ?
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No risk of contracting HIV here ,.
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But if he has some fluid which from his ana on his finger?
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480448 tn?1426948538
You had no risk, HIV is not transmitted in that manner.
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