extremely scared and worried to death

[aahekmaz]

Hi Doctor,

I am extremely scared and not able to sleep at night. Please help.
I had protected oral and vaginal sex in a massage parlor with an Asian masseur in San Francisco a week back 6th Nov. The vaginal sex lasted about 3 minutes. There was no breakage in the condom while usage. After the vaginal act the masseur used some tissue papers to remove the condom. I am scared that while removal the vaginal fluid on the outside of the condom might have touched my penis. I am uncircumcised.
The day after the act i have irritation and burning sensation in the penis. I feel relieved after i pee, but then it starts again.
From today, that is 12th Nov, i feel some sore throat.
Did i contact HIV? I am planning for the HIV RNA test. How early can i do this test. I am extremely stressed and not able to sleep at night. I also feel feverish.

Please Help

AHM

[Teak]

HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions; therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.

[aahekmaz]

Hi Teak,

Thanks for your response.
Is there a risk if the vaginal fluid on the outside of the condom touches my glans penis while removal of the condom?

Thanks again.

[Teak]

You never had an exposure.