It's definitely a man lol. It could be either or I would go get that checked out!!
Or they are genetal warts. Hemorrhoids will hurt. N be bigger then bumps. Id call a dr or er becayse if you are a "female" thats pregnant that can spread to the baby too.
Its hemorrids get some witch hazel and apply it its safe for u and baby
It could be a hemroid just get some hemroid cream and apply it to the clusters