I had protected sex 9 days ago (I am a straight male) we used lube and both have pubic hair. During this time I have had a red spot on my pubic region (not sure if already had it or not) a little bit of puss and some liquid has come out at some point but I believe this might just be an infected pimple. I’m scared I might have herpes but think I’m over reacting. I’ve had no signs of herpes - no itching, no glue symptoms etc.