I am a 42 year old female who has been married for 21 years. My husband and I started dating in high school and married a few years later. We have both been with only 1 other partner back in high school. Last year my husband had his first cold sore. He got another one about 5 or 6 weeks ago. I have never had any cold sores or any other genital issues. I do know we had sex and I performed oral sex on him, not vice versa. His cold sore is mild looking, so I almost don't even notice it and he rarely complains about it. It is easy to forget it is there, you really need to look to see it.
About 4 weeks ago, I began itching in my vaginal area. I thought it was a yeast infection because I had come off of antibiotics a few weeks earlier. It hurt for about a week or so and then went away. About 2 weeks ago it returned and has been much more painful. I had a urine culture done which showed enterococcus bacteria in my urine. My ob/gyn put me on several antibiotics which did nothing for the pain and burning. I made an appointment for yesterday for a urogynecologist. The doctor examined me and told me she thinks I have herpes. She even called another doctor in and they looked and both said most likely. They also said my cervix looked a little off and that I need to get a pap done soon. I am totally freaked out by this. Could I have HSV1 genitally from my husband's cold sore?? I know he has been faithful as well as I, but I can't imagine having HSV2 for more than 20 years ago and just get an outbreak now. It seems too coincidental with his cold sore outbreak. I was also very sick with Lyme disease several years ago and I believe it would have reared its head at that point since I was so immune depressed.
What do you think?? The doctor did a culture and ran bloodwork for hsv1 IGG and IGM and hsv2 IGG and IGM. I am hoping they may clue me a little as to when I may have gotten this.