Your itchiness is not herpes. You did not catch herpes from this encounter. First of all, condom protected sex is not 100% protection for herpes, but it is pretty close. Assuming your partner had herpes, which is more likely she did not, but let's say she did, on average without a condom you probably had a 1 in 1,000 chance of catching herpes. Now, a properly used condom that did not break during the encounter is probably 90% effective as a biological barrier. Therefore, reducing your odds of acquiring herpes to about 1 in 10,000, i.e. almost zero. Relax. I very much doubt you caught herpes. And congratulations for being kind to yourself and using a condom and practicing safe safe!
Thank you for reassuring. I still itch though even though i use the cream the itching never got transferred to penis skin or head. It always itches in tne thigh and hip area and anus area. What else could it be if not herpes?