So, if you received oral sex, there is a small chance of you getting HSV 1 on your penis. NOT your throat. If she gave you oral and YOU had hsv 1 and she had a poor immune system, SHE would be at risk for oral herpes of the throat. That is how that works. What you are implying, she gave you oral and you get herpes or std in YOUR throat is not the way it works. Likely a virus like tonsillitis.