Help!

[Vikkiz]

Hi...iam vikki...
Iam a virgin..i have never had sex in my life....but have had foreplays with my boyfrend...and our genitals have come in contact with each other....
is there any possibility of me gettin..gonorrhea..chlamydia ...herps or any other type of STI's....PLEAAAASEEE..i really nid help...thanks...  

[gracefromHHP]

You can get some std's from direct skin on skin contact - naked foreplay or outercourse as it's called - but the risk is really low.

Have you talked to your bf about his sexual past and any testing he's had done for std's?

grace

[Vikkiz]

no i havnt....iam scared to...

[Vikkiz]

weni say our genitals have com in contact with each other..i mean like with t he body fluids and all...but my virgiina is closed..so i dunno if i shld be worried abt any std's,....
thank u soo much

[gracefromHHP]

If you are going to be naked with someone then you need to feel comfortable talking about std's with them. Your health is potentially at risk so if you can't feel comfortable talking about it, then you shouldn't be having intimate contact with someone until you are more comfortable talking about it.

Sit down with your bf and let him know that you need to talk to him about his past sexual experience and std testing. Ask him if he's always using condoms, ask him if he's had any testing done. Of course if he's also a virgin then it's not an issue.

You had a very low risk contact and honestly it's not worth any testing at all.

grace

[Vikkiz]

Thank you