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Hi i have fingered a girl from my school who has kind of dirty reputation and a couple days later a pimple like thing appeared on my penis i was not to worried because i have had this before when i was much younger should i be worried about herpes?
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She was the first girl i had been with so i couldnt really have a bad reputation waringblender and thanks for making me feel good about myself
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Did you ever consider that you have a "dirty reputation" for fingering a girl? Yeesh, stop with the lame sexist stereotypes. It's bad form and speaks more about you than your partner. It's awfully tiring to read over and over again the sexist misogynistic language and attitudes on this forum. If you honestly believed the tripe you spew about "bad reputations" and whatnot, wouldn't you refrain from being sexual with that person? What we have here is your anxiety and underlying feelings of loss of control being exhibited as misogyny. Unevolved doesn't even begin to describe you, dude.

Fingering is not a risk for STD. If you had done even a minimal amount of reading on this forum, you would know that.

If you can't even handle the zero risk of a behavior like fingering, maybe keep your sexual practices to hand jobs (or whatever other jobs)  on yourself.
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what r the possibilties of getting other stds from fingering a women
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Alot of STDs dont necessarily hurt.. may cause discomfort or just show visible indications. No telling really brother...just get checked out and have a professional look it
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i would like to also add now i have little red bumps on the shaft of my penis they dont hurt at all and are barely even noticeable i just dont know what it is
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From fingering a girl you cant get herpes. Oral to genital contact and genital to genital contact only.. Of course if she has oral herpes and you got it orally it is possible that HSV-1 caused your "pimple" on your penis. Or there are a lot of other possibilities that may have caused your pimple the best thing to do is have a doctor look at it.

Best thing to do is get checked out. Good luck!
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alright thanks and if the finger that had the vaginial fluids on it were to touch my penis would that increase the chances of getting some type of std?
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not unless she had an out break and puss touched  it via your hands but unlikely. get checked if your worried & choose someone better next time.
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