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Risk of herpes from mutual masturbation

Dear community leader Grace

I have a really big question for you.  My life depends on this information.  I live in Madagascar.

5 days ago I had an encounter that is now taking away my life.  I am a virgin and will be getting married in December 2012.
On that unfortunate day I had my bachelor party.  Some CSWs were hired by friends for entertainment but NO penetrative sex.  Some hours before the party/encounter I had trimmed my pubic hair.  However unfortunately I hurt myself really deeply on my penis shaft.  The wound created was on my mid penis shaft and was around 5mm and was deep and had bled.

I fingered one CSW a bit.  Her Vaginal Secretions were on my fingers.  Then I unrolled a Durex Latex Extra Safe condom on my penis.  During this action a bit of the vaginal secretions had touched with my wound (perhaps not entirely sealed but no longer bleeding.)

After wearing the condom, the wound was covered by the condom.  I then fingered the girl and the again stroked my penis with my hands.  Perhaps vaginal secretions may have flowed from my hands to inside the condom to the wound.  The CSW gave me a handjob only then.  Nothing more.  NO ORAL OR PENETRATIVE SEX.

The wound is completely dry today.

What is my risk of Genital Herpes from this secondary touching?  Do I need testing?  Is my life over?  I should cancel my wedding;(

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Vance said NO RISK!! lol!!!! thx
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the wound had not crusted on day of encounter.. it was still open and fresh.  It crusted fully after two days.
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my worry is basically about holding my bare penis with penile wound for like 30s and unrolling condom with touching quite fresh open penile wound after having fingered the cheap street CSW.

I am desperate.
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I am worried since the deep wound on penis was a still fresh.  There has been no direct contact with her genitals or mouth.  Just a transfer of her infectious genital secretions and saliva to the fresh wound while putting condom.  These secretions could have crawled inside condom while handjob also.
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