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pleas help im going crazy with fear

Was with someone that was haveing a outbreak we had sex fast like 10 min I wore a condom. I thought it was heat rash sht told me after it was hsv2. Do I have any hope. I cant sleep eat drink pick my nose rub my eyes. I have even ben. Puting my ciggs on a straw so I dont touch my lips. I cant sit down I feel like my heart is going to stop.
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Even during an active outbreak, usually HSV is not transmitted. I agree many ER docs are not herpes experts, and her "big trouble" comment wasn't justified. She also seems to not know about the research that shows that taking acyclovir after exposure does not prevent infection. The only possible effect is to delay onset of symptoms and to make later diagnosis more difficult. I suggest you find more expert care (like your local health department STD clinic, a Planned Parenthod clinic, etc) then follow their advice about treatment, follow-up, and maybe later testing for HSV.
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Thanks
     I know i will find a way with gods healp and i hope its just all in my head as i really have no reason to thank i have it but what happend. Im glade you shared your storie with me. I must be 100% shure befor we have sex i couldent live with my sealf if i gave it to her.
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Yes the test was 50.50 didnt see it on paper was just told when i asked.
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For me, I believe I had HSV II and not know I had it for many years.  The first time I slept with my boyfriend, I had inflammation of the cervix, UTI which was the STD, and many yeast infections. I was sick for 6 months with all the symptoms of HSV II.  In fact, I slept with my boyfriend with the herpe sore and we both never knew what it was.  He still doesn't have it and I do. We believe the trauma of intercourse had the HSV II to surface and I began having outbreaks every since. I have to be on medication or else I'll have a sore.
My boyfriend is on medication so he doesn't get it.  
I think from the time you thought you had it and you had medication, you needed to continue with the medication until you knew the results. That way your partner/partners have less chance of having herpes.

My story sucks and I don't know where I got it, but I'm thankful to having a partner that understands. He was with me every step of the way and saw how horrible the symptoms were.  I just can't believe herpes could stick around for so long and then BAM it just creeps up.

Let all of us know if you were positive or negative.
Also, don't let things get you down. I felt horrible too, but in the long run, I got over it and live life like normal. It's a bump in the road that you can get over too. There are also ways of telling your partner/partners if you have it. I only have told a few close friends/family about it.. my mom, best friend, and boyfriend only.  Good luck!
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Ur have hsv1 was positive of 50.50?  Or was it neg?
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The igg is 98% accurate.  Not required to tell anyone i dont thank but i could never do that to her. I will leave her i thank. I dont know i cant thank past that point. My life will be over. She will never get it from me. I wont kill my sealf but i will wish for death.
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@ stupid bro I feel sad for you. When will the test results show up? And what test are we suppose to take at 12 weeks? If you test positive are you required to tell your wife?
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