no, he won't get recurrences every time he has sex with you.
make sure he schedules an appointment for more follow up !
He said this has never happened to him before but could he have contracted this before and never knew because it was dormant? I'm just perplexed about the whole thing. Thank you!
Thank you for your reply Grace! Just curious will this happen every time we have sex. We see each other once a month since we live far. We known for 3 months and it has happened. Since I have hsv1 what if we just have sex and not oral sex, would he still have an OB?
lesion cultures have a high rate of false negatives. At this point, he should also follow up with a type specific herpes igg blood test to see what his status is. He also needs to be seen every single time he has genital symptoms, within 48 hours of them starting. If they suspect herpes, they should be doing a lesion culture and typing on his symptoms again.
so how could you have been married and this never happened to your partner? Well if he also had hsv1, he wouldn't be likely to contract it genitally from oral sex. Odds are he was never tested . also you could be with a partner for a lifetime and not transmit an oral herpes infection to their genital area - it's about as much about bad luck as it is anything. it's also possible that this partner has hsv2 genitally and never realized it until he got an obvious recurrence and he just hasn't had proper testing yet. of course it could be that he doesn't have genital herpes either which is why further evaluation for him is important.
follow up to get better answers for you both :)
grace