Hi Whitey, So was the rough handling by a women then? sounds like your have pulled a tendon, unless you do heavy work, I think this should have settled down my now, its a bit like a strain by the sound of it, as men we will do silly things like lifting heavy weights, or from awkward angels, but it sounds like yours, if you keep straining it then it wont go away, then you may be getting into trust country.
Do hope this helps.
Good luck
A urologist should examine you and tell you what your options are.
This is not a terribly uncommon problem. Urologists check this all the time.