No sensitivity

[nosensitivity]

Hi there, my husband has not ha any sensation in his penis for 4 yrs now. He was previously diagnosed with depression with the Dr prescribing him the highest dose possible. He does get an erection, however it doesn't last for long and there's no sensation at all. We've tried Dr's and Urologist, but they came up with nothing. It's a point where it's affecting our marriage. i.e. no intimacy, kissing or hugging. We have not made love for 4yrs. If anyone can help or provide some good advise on where to go or what to do, it would be most appreciated. Many thanks

[jemma116]

I agree that it is highly likely that the loss of sensations is due to your husband's medications.  And it would be a good idea for him to speak with his doctor with regard to changing the antidepressants if this is possible.

There may also be another underlying cause and it may be worth getting blood tests done to rule out other illnesses like glucose intolerance or diabetes than can cause nerve damage and loss of sensations.

It may also be a good idea to get counselling therapy for his depression if he has not had an opportunity to have counselling.  Sometimes there is a deep routed cause that needs to be tackled and dealt with for the person with depression to try and come to terms with this and help to come through this depression.  Going for walks in the fresh air, doing things that he likes, exercise, relaxation, avoiding stressful situations as well as a healthy and well balanced diet will all help.

Of course, if he is very low he will not want to do any of these things, but it is important for him to at least try.  His doctor may refer him to a specialist counsellor to help him deal with the depression.

Best wishes.

[Foggy2]

Taking things like Viagra will not help with his problem since he has the ability to get an erection.

You and your husband need to talk to the doctor who is prescribing his depression medication, since this often is the cause of his problem.  There are many alternative medications available, so why take something with a side effect that is affecting him and your marriage?

If you get no results with this doctor, get a 2nd opinion.  Also research this medication online (drugs.com is a good place to start), and if you have to show the doctor the side effects at a visit, do so.

If all this fails, then he may want to see an Endocrinologist to see if he has a hormonal imbalance.  But my guess is his depression medication is causing the problem, which is very common (esp. if he is at a very high dose).

[gymdandee]

Most likely the depression and the meds are the cause.
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