Congratulations on your recent marriage. Now that you are married, avoid all porn and masturbation, allowing your sexual energy to build up. Continue being romantic with your wife, satisfying her by oral and manual means if intercourse is not possible for now, as your body heals. For now, allow her to give you a slow lubricated hand job for you both to see any progress that is leading to a proper ejaculation.
I think a urologist is probably your most suitable choice.
There are smear on agents to delay ejaculation. They slightly numb your glans penis just enough to allow you to carry on for a longer period of time before ejaculating. Dribbling is something that is usually due to prostatic enlargement (sometimes atrophy in older men) and is best not fretted over because the remedy is iffy and not worth the trouble. Tell the lucky lady that urine stains on underwear are best eradicated with a "Hot" wash (140 degrees) and Oxyclean. Works for me.