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GRRRRRRRR....THA DEVIL IS A LIAR!!!!!
Okay for those who dont know my situation here is a short version: I got pregnant at 17 lost my baby and didnt know I was pregnant until i lost it. I didnt have my first pap until I was 20 because my mama didnt take me I waited until i moved out....I suffered from PID and fibroids..i didnt know i jad fertility problems until 2006 when the dye test showed my tubes were blocked.....I researched and fount a reproduction specialist that said she could help..i had my first opperation on Sept 19 to remove my right dialted fluid filled tube and one fibroid and finally a D&C..through lap surgery...I just had which I figured was going to be my last hurttle..my last surgery on Nov 21 to remove 2fibroids and to clean me out and start me on my way...I just came back from them taking my stint out I asked her about thr green flag to TTC she the said........The dye didnt go through during surgery..but I may have to look at report again to see but was sure it was still blocked.....CRYING.....what blocked all this surgery and what still blocked i thought I was done i thought God had finally set me free and cross over to the motherhood world.....I got teary-eyed on the table and got dress and left to go home ..i call DH and he tells me what he always say "dont worry its going to happen just watch and see" I came straight home and fell to my knees and prayed to God 'when is my turn" Im only 25 and feel like my bio clock is out of mins........ladies I need your hugs, hearts, and prayers......I thought I would be leaving the DR with a big fat smile and ready to finally FINALLY FINALLY TTC
DR said I have a slow leak in my tube.......slightly open slightly close..........I KNOW GOD KNOWS WHAT TO DO .................IM READY FOR MY TURN
Thanks thats excactly right God knows when,why,and how things will happen....I gave it to the Lord earlier today and said I was going to let things happen when God is ready and let him be incharge!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thanx for the good luck thrown my way!!!!!!!!!!
I am really sorry for all your pain, But we need to never give up I know 2 couples who were married for 10 years before they had their 1st and they both had 3-4 m/c each and know they both have babies.
I think GOD knows what he does and why.
Good Luck and Lots of SSBD for all!!!!!!!!
I think GOD knows what he does and why.
Good Luck and Lots of SSBD for all!!!!!!!!
Aww no need to thank me. I just think sometimes we become so consumed with ttc we forget all that we have and the fact we still have to live our lives. No it's not easy and it won't be until we hold our babies in our hands but in the mean time we have to try to not lose ourselves in ttc or even our pgs. I wish it came with a do and don't book or some type of manual but it doesn't. As your friend and fellow hairstylist you should right now focus on you and your dh and your career your baby will soon follow. Take care and best wishes. You are in my thoughts always!!!!!
ArmyPrincess819-------I know I have time its just that after my miscarriage I have been wanting one so bad...also I think you read my mind because this morning I told DH that I am going to finish up my last 2yrs of school and start my hair salon business and just let it happen because I know it will happen when Im not thinking bout it......Thanks for ur support and wishes!!!!!
EricaB28----Yes we do have to support each other because nobody knows what we go through except (us) the ones going through it!!!!!!!! Im blessed to even have this website to know that there are others just like me and even worst off. So trust me I will indeed use that offer of your ears in the future.....lol thanks!!!
EricaB28----Yes we do have to support each other because nobody knows what we go through except (us) the ones going through it!!!!!!!! Im blessed to even have this website to know that there are others just like me and even worst off. So trust me I will indeed use that offer of your ears in the future.....lol thanks!!!
Thanks for your prayers too. I think as women, we have to support each other. None of this is easy and the best way to get through it is to talk about it! God gave me 2 ears so I could listen, so if you ever need to vent or anything I'm here :)
I'm sorry you are going through all of this especially around the holdidays. TTC is a very long and painful process. I know you feel like your clock is huge with no time left on it but you are 25 you have so much time on your hands. I was told by a close friend that when ttc you have to think happy and positive thoughts. I'm a firm believer that everything happens for a reason and sometimes it takes a whlie to figure out what the reason is but we always get them. I hope you get your bundle of joy sooner than later. Best of luck to you and remember to relax it will happen when it's supposed to. Take care and best wishes to you and your dh.
Thanx so much for ur prayers and I do have faith that IWILL be blessed with a miracle so I can testify to others...thanx and continue to pray for me...so so so sorry for ur loss you will also be in my prayers!
I am so sorry for all that you've been through! I had a m/c in Aug. 2 days after I got BFP. It took me 14 weeks to get AF back, so I totally understand about being in ttc limbo. I hope you are feeling well and are keeping a positive outlook. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. My first child was a miracle, so I know they do happen! ( I only had 2 AF a year and we were using B/C at the time we got BFP) So don't give up hope!! We're here for you :)
AF CAME THE DAY AFTER THANKSGIVING LORD!!!!! MAYBE THATS A GOOD THING A CHANCE TO START FRESH IF GOD SAYS THE SAME!
Thanx girl u know how to make a person smile REAL BIG I do have faith and I know God is able to make the impossible..possible so I will keep going....like my DH said he didnt bring me this far to leave me now.....so please keep praying for me and u know im praying 4 u!!!!!!!!! stay blessed and thanx 4 ur testimony sis!!!!!!!
It's never over so don't give up hope! If I were you, I'd TTC anyway because God will do as He wants. A blocked fallopian tube can't stop Him. Many women with their tubes tied get pregnant so I have a good feeling that things will work out for you. I have fertility issues, too (PCOS) and I just got pregnant. (I lost my baby because I needed progesterone and didn't get it until it was too late--- not because of the fertility prob).
GOOD LUCK!
GOOD LUCK!
Thanx so so so much for ur testimony I know once I hear others testimonies of those that were told they wouldnt have kids and end up having 2 or 3 would really do me justice and brighten up my day!! stay blessed and again thanx 4 ur prayers!
Oh honey, I'm so sorry! I thought for sure that you were going to be on your way to ttc too...I will be praying for you...I believe in miracles and you deserve one. I just told nunu a little bit ago that I was 16 when they told me that I probably wouldn't be able to have children. I proved them wrong! I have 3 beautiful children. And now I have cysts, fibroids, and endometriosis and still conceived back in June...Of course now that I'm ttc things aren't going so easy, but I still have hope. You are in my thoughts *HUGS *
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