I have had sex, but my boyfriend has never finished in me. I have gotten fatter (my hips and butt) and my stomach looks like I just ate a lot. I have 5 days before I start my period, but I just had a little brown blood come out, and I don’t know if it would make a difference but last night he fingered me and was like wiggling his fingers around. I really don’t want a baby either, so I’m scared to be pregnant.