My husband called me-you are hysterical!!?!

[ADAADA]

I m married for 10 months and I  moved to US 1 year ago(foreign europan) We had some problems in that 10 months but last one was not like before...I cought some proofs.I heard some phone call between eachother...even I cought;he said--nothing happened!! never!! never!!
anyway but and than when I catch more things --I started  ask! he always run..didnt look my faces-eyes...never answered...always he says--you are paranoia!! you are wrong!!
I started cry..because I dont have any family member and friends here for share my shock! sadness! but he started call me --you are hysterical!! I m the pyshician! I m the doctor!! definitely this is hysterical!!
I dont like he said to me like that! he knows I cought everything;he lied and still lies and how he can put diagnosis about my loneliness? I read about hysterical from internet. But I need to take your opinion,If I couldnt accept his lies and cheated on me....I should be hysterical?

[margypops]

How are you doing now , how is it going ?

[margypops]

If you are correct and he is having an affair this is the way they behave, always denying it, and placing the blame on you. If you are certain that he is then you have to make up your mind if you wish to continue with the relationship.Meanwhile how about you try to make fireinds and get a life going most cities and places in the US have  activities , you have to put out" friends can be made, what are your interests , join a classs so you can learn something and meet other people , you have made the first step coming to medHelp, you will make friends here.