THIS IS WRONG WRONG WRONG....my ss also of the same age,,his mother is creepy like this too. Sleeping in bed and holding hands in public,,,kissing on the mouth also. Makes me sick.
We have told the 14 year old this is NOT normal behavior but the mother wont stop.
She no longer has custody.
it all depends on the way his mother raised him. for example im a 15 year old girl and i hate when my mom touches me and i dont even know my dad. i refuse to even sleep in the same rooms as either of them. so, sleeping in the same bed is her could just be because he has a strong connection with his mother. however, its a psychological disease to be in love with your own parent. i would say some counseling, or even a psychiatrist, would be beneficial.
Sounds pretty odd to me, that a 14 year old boy would want to sleep in bed with your girlfriend. Is he doing anything sexual? I understand that a mother would like to cuddle with her child no matter what age they are. Sometimes I sleep in the same bed as my 13 year old daughter as well. (FYI, I am her mother). I think that the only thing that matters is the boy's intent. Is he trying to be sexual? Or is he just wanting to be closer to his mother? Honestly, I don't think it's appropriate for him to be in there every night. I only sleep with my daughter in the same bed like every once in awhile when she's feeling sad or if she's freaking out over a thunder storm or something.
My opinion.
Not appropriate behaviour IN ANY WAY, NO EXCUSE FOR IT.
There are issues there..
Hey there,
I am amazed at some of the responses to your query. I do not think this is appropriate behaviour. If you are worried about it also - I say trust your instincts. You were concerned enough about it to seek help for it. If you don't believe me, talk to a therapist, a psychologist and definitely do this before you are married. The boy SHOULD NOT feel comfortable "trying" to make out with his mom. No no, not good at all.