Just need a woman's point of view

[leahmoriah15]

Hi ladies. This isn't baby related. I just need the advice of another woman. I am going through a situation with my boyfriend who is also the father of my  unborn child. About four months ago I saw where he and a coworker of his were texting and I came and cross a few texts that were disrespectful. I mentioned it to him and he assured me that he had handled the situation. In October as I was going through our phone bill I saw that he and this same coworker had texted a lot, sometimes starting as early as 7 am and as late as 12am. He and I got into a big argument and he admitted that he deleted the texts because he knew I would be upset and admitted that at times they had gotten disrespectful. He called her and told her they could no longer talk. Fast forward to November and and I get the bill and check it to see if he kept his word. Unfortunately he hadnt. They exchanged 1200 texts from the date that he claimed he told her they could no longer talk. We got into yet another argument and I explained that I felt betrayed because I made it clear that I didn't trust the situation and asked him to stop and he blatantly lied about doing so. He claimed he was going to let her know. I saw where they were still exchanging texts late that night and I took all of his things to his house and told him I was done. He said sorry etc but I was done. The next day he calls and I go over there and we talk and he promises to leave it alone. He deleted her number and I asked him to delete her off Facebook which he did. We are currently trying to rebuild our relationship but last week I saw where they are friends again on facebook. I feel that this is a slap in my face and that he feels that her feelings are more important than mine or maintaining contact with her in a more important. Any advice???? Sorry so long

[Mcbaby01]

Obviously he is a lier. I wouldn't trust him at all. You need to leave him and rebuild your life for yourself and your baby. I know it is scary, and not so easy to think about being alone right now, but it is the best thing you can do.

[domingoleigh]

im sorry for u to go through something like that. for him to continue to distrespect u is obviously showing u he has no respect for u. maybe hes trying to have u and her. he is prbly already in a relationship with her and just cant admit to you. maybe its best to stay as friends and just see what happens from there. maybe even talk to the other lady as adults and maybe ask her if there in a relationship that hes not being honest about it and u just wanna know so u dont have to be caught in the middle of it... best luck :)

[TheMrsLevy]

I don't think this is appropriate for this app. Sorry to hear that you're dealing with all of that. But this is supposed to be baby related.