13 years old and pregnant

[zacaray]

I an 13 years old 14 in may  and I am pregnant I have tried to tell the unborn baby’s dad but he just said that it was not his fault and I was all to balm my dad is all ways working and my mam is all ways trying to stop my three brothers from fighting so they don’t have much time left and every time i try and tell my mother my brothers all ways start fighting so she has to go and sort them out and I can not tell my brothers because they never listen to me and my sister has moved away and has a family of her own to look out for.
I have told my best friend and he said he would look after me but my family still needs to know right.
so what can I do? what is the best thing to do?
Please help the best you can

[zacaray]

i dont know i was to sceard of my mam finding out i did not go to the docs to see

[breeziebabyyy]

How far along are you?

[zacaray]

but she still is not talking to me and the cramps are geting more painful and closer to gether what dose that mean.

[zacaray]

i have been to the docs to see if i had got any diseases like aids and herpes befor i found out i was pregnant

[nicky96]

Look, give her some space, sometimes it's better to say nothing than to say stupidities you can't take back.  She is PISSED at you right now.  She has every right to be mad at you.  Not only are you having sex - the fact that you are pregnant tells her you had UNPROTECTED sex.  You don't understand the thoughts going through her mind right now.  NOt only did you get pregnant but you (even though you are positive that you didn't) may have come into contact with a number of diseases that don't always manifest themselve right away.  nevermind AIDS for a minute but something like herpes can show up later and is for LIFE.  I'm assuming you know at least a little about the diseases out there.  Now, think about how she must feel - she knows that you will eventually start to show and even though she loves you she may feel a little embarassed because it makes her look like she didn't do her job as a Mom and teach you anything.  I am soooo not saying these things to hurt your feelings and life is hard enough as it is right now but I am trying to give you a little perspective and make you see things from her point of view.  She can't beleive what is happening.  Better she says nothing than say hurtful things or give in to the urge to possibly slap some sense into you.  Even though we love our kids there are moments where we would love to give you one good cuff.  THE ANGER PHASE WILL PASS then you will talk because beleive me she has some stuff to say to you.  Give her some time.

[Seraphimred]

You still can't make her understand.  In her eyes you're still her baby..and now you're pregnant?  Its a major blow to her. I'm 25 and I told my mother yesterday I might be pregnant..and yes she acted almost exactly the same way.  I'm still her baby, and always will be.  
Don't expect it to be over right away...she's liable to be hurt and upset for a good long while.  She's your momma though..she loves you.  She always will.  Just give her time.  You will need more than "some" help.  This isn't a child you babysit and get to give back at the end of the day.