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13 years old and pregnant

I an 13 years old 14 in may  and I am pregnant I have tried to tell the unborn baby’s dad but he just said that it was not his fault and I was all to balm my dad is all ways working and my mam is all ways trying to stop my three brothers from fighting so they don’t have much time left and every time i try and tell my mother my brothers all ways start fighting so she has to go and sort them out and I can not tell my brothers because they never listen to me and my sister has moved away and has a family of her own to look out for.
I have told my best friend and he said he would look after me but my family still needs to know right.
so what can I do? what is the best thing to do?
Please help the best you can
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347484 tn?1213305738
I'm going to assume you're a real poster. If you need help, you can call a free crisis pregnancy hotline. You can see the website at www.birthright.org. The number is listed there. They can help you better than we can.

We've helped girls as young as 12 who were raped go on to have healthy pregnancies and births, whether they kept them or gave them up for adoption. We also offer resources, so please give that number a call.

There's nothing else we can say or do for you.
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no i did not tell my mam but the babys farther had told his and then he came and told my mam and dad and my mam was that mad she would not even talk to me she just send me to my room.
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305005 tn?1358728290
did you ever tell your mom? you really need to tell her asap so you can go get checked and find out what your options are.
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324142 tn?1253822722
I think EVERYONE involved needs to know including his parents and I really wouldn't care what he thought about it!  Since he is only 16 he is probably freaking out and not wanting to take responsibility for his actions but you can't just let him off the hook.  Tell everyone ASAP.............you don't have to go through this alone, and people will find out sooner or later once you start showing.
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the babys farther is 16 and the reason why my profile said i was 63 was i was in pain when i but my date of birth in and i must of put in the wrong date
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318269 tn?1241350235
Good that you plan on keeping the baby! But all parents need to be aware and perhaps help.  How old is he?
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