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5770739 tn?1382315166

29w6d and im leaving my husband

Last night I posted on this form about catching my husband on a live sex chat/porn site. He was on webcam with some super skinny girl. Instead of apologizing to me he locked ME out of our room and I slept on the couch. Today he has not said one word to me at all. He is walking around the house as of he has done nothing wrong. He has not asked how I was feeling or anything. So I started packing my bags and he finally spoke to me
.his exact words were "let me help you get all your stuff together" I am heartbroken and I feel so betrayed! We already have two children together and now I am pregnant with the third. My world feels like it is crashing down on top of me :( I don't know what to do at this point
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5885567 tn?1378687010
I am truly sorry for everything your going thru...u just need to be strong, this is when u show him u dont need him, that u can do it on your own! I jist can't believe he would throw away 10 years like that!! U deserve better, & he is missing out, dont let him get to u...forget him...I know its hard but us girls are strong, much stronger than them...he just showed he is the weakest link by throwing away his family for some random girl on a porn site..im so sorry again, if u need any advice ur more than welcome to msg me..be strong, u can do it on ur own
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I'm so sorry this is happening. Although I do not know much about your relationship, from what you have said I think leaving is the right thing for now. Hopefully he will come around, apologize, and seek counselling. Not sure this helps, but my mom left my dad soon after giving birth to my brother when I was five. She did an amazing job and is now remarried and has added to our family. You are a strong woman for leaving. You deserve better. And I think you are setting a good example to your children of valuing your self-worth and not staying in a relationship where your partner is intentionally trying to hurt you. With that being said, I hope everything works out the way you want it to. Stay strong and please remember, you are an amazing woman and are worth being treated with respect.
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wow wat an. ****  u deserve better maybe with u leaving hill realize wat he lost. I'm sorry that ure going thru this hun but he obviously chose porn over his family that shows u his true colors. Ure strong u can do this without him. You have ure kids that are the most important ones
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I'm a single mother of 3 don't let that scare you....I'm doing it by my self with out having their dad in the picture.it's hard but worth it ...us women always get through everything specially for our Lil ones..stay strong,a Guy like that is never worth staying for..
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Im so sorry I bet that.makes you sick. It pisses me off for you. I would make him leave tho! Your pregnant with kids and one who has to have more surgery
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wow long time that's jus him bein nasty an cold towards you hope u an the kids all the best hun
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5770739 tn?1382315166
This November will be 10 years that we have been married :(
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5461539 tn?1376247568
Im sorry :( I know if my boyfriend did a thing like that he would be knocked out!... Everything will get better. You dont need someone who does stuff like that. Remember that you are beautiful! Dont think your not!  This will make you stronger! Xoxo
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Your story makes me sick to my stomach. How disgusting of him! I'm glad ur packing your things. Maybe so time with out u will make him grow up!
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5110781 tn?1378361950
I would recommend leaving for a while, stay with a friend or family member and maybe then he'll change his ways and straighten up...if not then that just shows his true colors honestly and why would u even want to be with someone like that or have your children grow up with a role model like that....
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5426152 tn?1382129604
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How long have you been married? Usually I am not one to encourage divorce or seperation but it seems like he is set on hurting you, not mending what's been broken. I hope he smartens up but with that attitude you are better to leave him. I am sorry you are goibg through this.
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Im sorry to hear that , I can imagine how hard it must be,  but mabey u walking out is wat he needs for a wake up call , and if not then hes not worth it , hang in there and stay strong for ur kids and ur pregnancy they are the most important
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