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I'm pregnant.....i thought i would be ok and maybe even excited but right when i saw the test i literally shattered into a million pieces i could not stop crying for like an hour im so nervous and scared. is this normal to want a baby and then be scared as heck when you actually get one? We're young so i think my fiance is going to be less then thrilled and i think thats why im so nervous i dont know how to tell him. he's mostly going to be afraid to tell his parents theyre very religious and strict. we have steady incomes and a nice 2 bedroom condo we live on our own in a different town then our parents and have been together for 5 years solidly. i know i will get excited eventually but im just in shock right now. but i have to tell you all....i really just knew it...as soon as i got all the unexpected acne i knew it.
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363110 tn?1340920419
Congrats! the initial freakout is totally normal. But wait til you see baby's heartbeat and feel the first kick... that'll rock your world!
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689528 tn?1364135841
Congrats to you and annaleesmom!! Have a happy and healthy 9 months!!
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So i just felt the same way.  I got a bfp on saturday.  didn't tell my boyfriend until last night.   I was so scared I was literly sweating bullets, and I about passed out.  He couldn't have been more excited!  I'm also nervous about telling parents and all...

good luck!
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376148 tn?1309899577
HAHAH thats cute it took me ten months to get preggers with my son( hes 8 months old now) Well were not really trying but kinda the same thing as you if it happens it happens! Thing is i dont know when i ovulated..but i know i hit my dates ( i had to..lol...i dont think we missed a day b'ding this month !! ) lol but i am now three days late i believe..still neg test!! So im either not pregnant or conceived last week! I had alot of cramping last week so i think thats when it implanted!! How long after implantation can you test??
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Congrats :-)
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965641 tn?1274534320
CONGRATS!

when i found out this last time i was pregnant i was in shock i guess
i just sat on the toilet starring at the test for....a good while lol
and no one was home but me and my son anthony
but i was so sure the test was wrong because i wasnt even due for a period yet
but then again the whole reason i took the test was because i was having certain symptoms
so i sent a pic of the test to the hubby at work
and he was so excited when he came home- so he pretty much put me at ease
but once again congrats- and hope all is well!
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800427 tn?1324945719
Thank you!! im begining to get little jittters already! and i tested on my 2nd late day AF was supposed to be here the 24th ..i ovulate on the 6th i know for sure because we only had sex that one day. so i guess that would make it DPO 19? i think that would be right if i calculated correctly! are you trying to conceive? we were pretty careless with a if it happens it happens kind of thing and it took almost 9 months to actually happen. so 9 months to make a baby...9 months to have a baby haha....GL!!
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505857 tn?1329681517
congratulations
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376148 tn?1309899577
congrats hun! The bfp crying is totally normal! I think your just realy over joyed and it almost seems unreal heyy!! lol youll really start to feel good about it i promise...but to tell you the truth no matter how bad you want a baby and have been trying t is scarey know ing that your life is going to change and that your going to have to care for another human being and be a mommy!! :) So its totally normal!! Again congrats..oh how many dpo were you when you tested??
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800427 tn?1324945719
thanks nickie!! now its ur turn!! im praying for you i hope all your plans at the docs work out perfectly! trust me when u least expect it...it will come! i am breathing proof of that...im out of my mind with shock...its SO intense!
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796506 tn?1370188305
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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8 more weeks so not too much longer now!
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800427 tn?1324945719
thanks joy! ill keep my eyes open for the may club....how're you doing? your about ready to pop right? i bet youre getting very excited!!
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800427 tn?1324945719
Thank you, yes i do. i have been very fortunate in life so far we work very hard to afford our granite counter tops and stainless steal appliances!! haha this baby is a surprise and we're gonna freak for a while but i know we're going to be the perfect little family when the baby comes...the mommy and the daddy and the baby and our little dog :)
-are you trying to conceive? id love to hear a little about your story i feel totally guilty being all freaked out over here when i know lots of women on here would change places with me in an instant...how're u doing?
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It sometimes MedHelp time to get the new birth clubs up.

Anyway, congrats!!! It is normal to feel scared. Especially if you've experienced pregnancy hardships in the past (such as miscarriages). Take it one day at a time!
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937837 tn?1285350385
be excited, it's a life! Whatever hardships come, you will face them together! Sound like you have a lot more than some people your age, so enjoy.
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800427 tn?1324945719
how come there isnt a pregnancy may 10 babies forum? is it because its happening right now and i have to wait for others to get bfp's? is anyone else due in may???
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